Tuesday, January 20, 2009
What Am I Going to Do With Her?
When we were leaving her preschool she decided she was going to run ahead. We talk about this EVERY day and usually she is good at stopping at the gate to wait for her old mom to catch up. Well, today she decided the fence was no good and just went running straight for the car, amongst all the moving vehicles that are there to drop off and pick up their own little ones. I about had a nervous break down and you better bet her entire name came out of my mouth at a louder then normal level... ALEXIS JULIANNA H. YOU BETTER STOP RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE THIS MOMENT!!!!! Even after the raised voice and full name being spoken she didn't seem to understand the gravity of what she had just done and how lucky she was not be a pancake under someone's car.
Then, as I was changing a bomb diaper of Aiden's she went into the kitchen to get the necessary items for me to make a peanut butter sandwhich. She does this all the time; one kids' knife, the bread, and the jar of peanut butter. Well, this time she decided that she needed to mess with the stove knobs and successfully turned the burn on full force. At the old place the burners would click when someone was lighting them but these you just have to turn and they automatically come on. Of course she had set the loaf of bread on the burner before she decided they looked like fun to play with. Pure panic that not only was the loaf of bread (and melting plastic) a big mess, but that they whole place was going to catch on fire.
I think I need to lock her in her room for the rest of the day. If third time is the charm then I don't want to give her the opportunity for the third heart attack of the day. Seriously I won't be locking her in her room, but really, how much more can this mommy take? Time out just doesn't seem to do justice anymore. I am more or less writing this post so I can calm down and take a time out myself so I don't blow up at this moment about her reckless behavior. Maybe we need to invest in those little stove baby locks (never needed them when she was littlier but I guess we do now) and maybe I need to invest in one of those harnesses when we walk to and from school(never needed those either when she was little). Who knows? UGH!!!!! She may look like me from her baby pictures and mine, but she is ALL her dad. Just ask his mom about all the wonderfully adventurous things he did as a child, like drinking sewing machine oil among MANY other dangerous things. This is just a glimpse of things to come and I am really in for it.
Monday, January 19, 2009
Cookie Cutter Kids
I wanted to compare all our pictures around the same age group and it is crazy how much the kids look alike, almost as if they are cookie cutter kids. This is Aiden's 10 month picture, just taken a few weeks ago.
So I got a little carried away and went searching for pictures of myself and Dale around the same age. I am the 'little' one on the right (my sister, Charity, is on the left). Still the same double chin and chubby cheeks. I am about 13 months old in this picture. (I am sure my sister will love me once more for sharing her picture as well.)
Not Me! Monday and Smoke Detector Sensitivity

I did not, while taking a luke warm shower (seriously, Dale's are 10x hotter then mine), set off the fire alarm in our bedroom. The alarm is not so sensitive that it would be triggered by the steam from the shower. This could not have all been avoided had I turned the exhaust fan on instead of leaving it off to hear what the kids were doing. I did not call for Andrew when I heard the high pitched noise to ask if there truly was a fire somewhere and then get bummed out that it was just a false alarm that was interrupting my few moments of peace. I did not get out of the shower with conditioner still in my hair and soap all over so I could fan the smoke detector to turn it off and then get back in the shower, turning the exhaust fan on of course, so I could finish my business. Needless to say I have not done that again and I did not entertain for a short moment the thought of just taking the alarm out so I could continue enjoying my luke warm showers with the exhaust fan off. That would just be reckless mommy behavior if I had wanted to do that. Thank goodness for technology that keeps us safe, but does it have to be so darn sensitive??
Moving on from that traumatic event that did not happen. I did not praise my doggy, Suzy Q, for having no accidents in the house since the big move, only to walk into Alexis' room moments later and step into a warm wet puddle. I did not proceed to clean it up all while muttering under my breath how she was on thin ice and better watch what she does or she is out. After cleaning it up I did not decide to take the time to reorganize all of Alexis' toy bins. After putting everything in it's proper place I did not proceed to take pictures of each bin so I can print them and tape them to the front of the bin so she will remember where everything goes. I am not tired of resorting them every time I help her clean. After said cleaning/sorting marathon I did not proceed to walk down the hallway toward the living to relax and get stopped dead in my tracks when I stepped in yet another warm wet puddle. YOU DARN DOG!!! Suzy Q did not spend the majority of the remainder of that day out on the deck in the cold wind. And yes, Andrew had done his job and was taking her out consistently that day, she just thought my carpet was more inviting then the grass for some reason. She better snap out of it.
We did not spend hours this week watching home videos and converting them to DVDs. This was not extremely fun but depressing at the same time. Fun to remember all the funny things the kids do, but depressing to see my weight changes morph before me and the reminder that I have not pulled out the video camera once since Aiden came home from the hospital. I have some 'video' time on my digital camera, but nothing like the hours clocked on Andrew and Alexis when they were little. We did not run out right away and buy 6 new tapes and still have not used them to document what Aiden is now doing. I am sure he will be in therapy for years to come since he has 'third child syndrome.'
Ok, I am not procrastinating on the laundry as we speak so I can write all about the things I did not do this past week. Hope everyone does not have a wonderful Monday and remember to not join in the fun by heading over to MckMama's blog for the easy to follow rules.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
These Shoes Were Made For Walking
For those of you that know me personally, you know what a big deal this is. I wear flip flops 365 days of the year. No joke! In the rain, to church, on a trip to Disneyland, to school, the grocery story, EVERYWHERE. I dislike shoes SOOOOO much it is not even funny. But, over the past few weeks I have come to understand that sneakers need to become my new best friend. The stairs up to our house are killing me in the flip flops, while juggling a dog leash in one hand, a chucky monkey 10 month old in the other hand, a little girl zigging and zagging right in front of me on the verge of making me trip, with the baby bag slung over one shoulder, a cell phone in the palm with the dog leash, and keys dangling from somewhere. I just need more support I guess. I know that sneakers are not going to change the full hands but they might help my feet and legs feel some better.
Not only is it the stairs that are giving me a hard time, it is the walk back and forth three times a day to school that gets to me. We have uneven pavement, rolling parking lots, and children bobbing and weaving once again in front of me while I am juggling Aiden in his baby wrap. I have resolved that I will not drive the kids to school even though we are slightly farther away then before. I have even resolved that I will extend that walk once I have dropped them off in the morning and add another 10-15 mins to my walk. So for my a.m. walk it will be 25 mins long and for the other two it will be at least 10 mins. Hard to extend the walk when I have extra little legs that need to keep up all while whining about being hungry, thirsty, tired or some combination of the three. That gives me 45 mins of walking each day. Not much, but certainly a lot more then I was doing before.
So Mr. Sneakers (or are they Mrs. Sneakers since they are pink and made for girls?), get ready to be dusted off more often and used at least 5 times a week. Get ready to clock more mileage. And please, help my aching bones!!!
Monday, January 12, 2009
Not Me! Monday

Officially a Big Boy Now
Here is his before mug shot with his crazy hair in his eyes.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
To Cut or Not To Cut? That is the Question
And yes, those are still boxes in the background that need to be unpacked. Dale broke the DVD cabinet when we were moving and I am waiting till it gets replaced so I can unpack the rest of the DVDs. Only one more misc. box to unpack/throw away. Yipee! And the rest of the pictures will be hung tonight as long as Dale comes home in a hanging mood. We shall see what today holds for us. I am hoping to have it all done, one short week after moving.
So ladies, please weigh in on the haircut dilemma. I need all the advice I can get on this one. Thanks in advance.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
EARTHQUAKE!!!!
Now that it is all said and done and the phone calls have been made, it is time to calm down and get to bed. The earthquake emergency backpack is packed somewhere. Might be a good idea to get it out and find it's new home sooner then later. Hopefully no more shake, rattle and rolling here tonight.
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Hair, Wii, Teeth, and More
Well, that is enough rambling for now. I should get back to unpacking those dreaded misc. boxes. Dale has tomorrow off so we are going to go over to the other place and work on some last minute things before we walk away completely. Please pray that my migraines will go away. I haven't had them this bad for a long time and I know that they are from the stress of the move and my tooth that is in desperate need of attention. It is no fun to wake up and go to bed each day with a constant headache for over a week. I really should get the tooth fixed and get to a chiropractor to help me with the migraines, but that will have to wait till another day.
Moving Day
We have gotten the majority of it all settled in. I think we have about 10 more boxes to unpack, of which 5 are marked misc. stuff. All the last minute stuff that didn't have a home and probably just needed to be thrown away. Those are the worst boxes to go through. My goal is to have it all unpacked by Saturday.
Internet and cable were finally installed yesterday (me going without internet for 5 days?.... that was a killer, but gave me no excuse for not unpacking). We still have to wait for the phone installation till the 16th. It will be nice when it is all said and done and life can get back to normal.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009!!
Unrelated to New Years but still adorable - When Andrew was born, the first words out of this loving mother's mouth was, "He looks like a Munchichi!!" He was super hairy and to me looked just like the adorable Munchichi toys I had played with as a kid. I found this Munchichi at Vons the other day and could not resist. Do you see the resemblance? The little doll is holding onto his pet Welsh Corgi, which is exactly what we have. I love my little Munchichi guy!!!
Hope everyone had a wonderful New Years. I know that we are looking forward to lots of good things to come in 2009.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Quick "Not Me!" Monday

This will be short and sweet and to the point today since I am crazy busy with packing and appointments today. MckMama is not having Not Me Monday today due to Stellan (her little MckMuffin) being sick and in the hospital. Please keep him in your prayers.
*I did not enjoy the hours of arm free time when everyone kept offering to hold Aiden at my in-laws house.
* I did not have ALL the Christmas decorations packed up and stored before 1:00 pm Christmas day. I of course settled in on that day and relaxed and did not rush around packing a gazillion boxes.
*I did not give Dale a guilt trip over his lack of participation in the packing and moving even though I know that he is not feeling well. I did not give him an ultimatum to either help me paint the new kitchen or get off the couch and go to urgent care to find out what is wrong. The man who NEVER goes to the doctor did not choose to go to urgent care to only find out that he does not have a serious sinus infection with all the bells and whistles. I did not feel guilty for forcing him to go to the doctor but glad that he is hopefully on track to feeling better before the big move on Saturday.
*I did not feel sad when my stocking was empty, minus the voucher for a free vacuuming, compliments of my caring 9 year old son. I guess when we agreed to not give each other gifts, Dale figured he was off the hook on the stocking too. That's my favorite part. Hopefully next year he will put some effort into that.
*I did not forget to buy oranges for the kids stockings this year. I have always put one in their stocking since I was always given one as a child. How could this have slipped my mind? Too much going on right now.
*I did not spend Sunday working in the nursery, to end up only having my kid in there. I could have watched him from the comfort of my own house instead of him being the only one there and grouchy in this forgein place.
*My family will not be happy when this whole move is over so they don't have to deal with grouchy mom who tries to pack everything in sight. So far they have avoided being shoved in a box, taped, and labeled.
Well, I have taken a long enough break. Must get back to packing before I have to leave for my next appointment of the day in about an hour. Hope everyone has a wonderful and safe New Year's celebration.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Howse Family Christmas
Alexis and Andrew got some books from Grandma and Grandpa.
